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The 'VIP Gypsy' of Odessa

Zinaida gives an interview to a local TV channel about her social media work. Photo: contributed by Zinaida Prokopenko

Zinaida gives an interview to a local TV channel about her social media work. Photo: contributed by Zinaida Prokopenko

At 23, Zinaida Prokopenko now can loudly, proudly say that she is a Roma. But this was not the case in her younger days.

Zinaida is Roma, also called Romany, an ethnic group of traditionally itinerant people who originated in northern India but now live principally in Europe.

The word “Roma” means “man” and refers to different communities, including Kalderash in southeastern Europe, Romanichals in England, Sinti in Germany, Italy, and France, Kalé in Wales, Finland, Spain and Portugal, and Gitano from Spain, as well as many others around the world — Zinaida is one of an estimated 400,000 Roma people in Ukraine.

While in school, Zinaida often faced bullying and harassment due to the stereotypes around her ethnicity.

She says she encountered constant teasing and humiliation by people just because she belonged to the Roma community.

Sadly, her problems didn’t go away upon leaving school.

This time, deep-rooted cultural and social norms within her own community hindered her educational progress. Her father didn’t allow her to go to a university because he believed she needed to prepare to become a good housewife. It took Zinaida several years to convince her family and get enrolled in the faculty of journalism.

“When I became a teenager, I wanted to fight stigma against my community, defend it, break stereotypes, and tell the world that Roma community is as honest and decent as other communities in the society,” she says. “But since I was very young, I could only dream about it, I didn’t know how to do it.”

From mocked to TikTok

Thanks to the women’s leadership training organized by Winds of Change, a national NGO in Odessa, with the support of CARE, Zinaida has gained confidence and ideas to counter discrimination and stigma against her own Roma community in Ukraine.

These Roma women are participants in the Women's Leadership Program, which CARE implements in Odesa with partner “Winds of Change.” Photo: Zinaida Prokopenko

“Now, I want to teach and motivate other girls to change and be active so that the world knows who the Roma are, and starts saying only good things about us,” she says.

“I am confident that not only the Roma community — but also the society’s overall attitude towards our community — will change.”

Zinaida participating in women's leadership training in Odesa. Photo: contributed by Zinaida Prokopenko

“Education allowed me to discover and express myself, to know myself and my limits. So, I decided to use a social media platform to reach people,” she adds.

“I created a page on TikTok and started telling stories about Roma. In my videos, I tell people how I – being a Roma — live, what we do, and thus want to break the stereotypes against the community.”

Currently, Zinaida’s channel “VIP Gypsy” has 66,000 followers, and her videos attract over 100,000 views.

@prokopenko_zi Все еще думаете что нет нормальных ромов ? @vera_drangoy #ромы #рекомендации #цыган #цыгане #табор #gipsy #цыганестан #цыганка #роми #циганеодеса #цыганки #ромиодеса ♬ оригінальний звук – ✨VIP Циганка✨

@prokopenko_zi Внятно обяьснила ? #ромы #рекомендации #цыган #цыгане #табор #gipsy #цыганестан #цыганка #роми #циганеодеса #ромиодеса #цыганки #золото ♬ оригинальный звук – ✨VIP Циганка✨

“I still receive a lot of hate comments,” she says. “But these comments help make my videos more popular, and people see and hear how I represent my community in a better light. I am confident that this will change a lot.”

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